The Anger Attitude

People mostly of our age, are very likely to get recommended of things. Do this that way, do that this way, we are very often told off by our parents and elders and many of us think that they are saying this for nothing. But, mostly we are very wrong in this opinion.

We all as children and teenagers, want something in life. Someone wants to get a job, someone wants to start his own business, or someone wants to find their path towards financial independence. But, we all are very often not very hardworking towards what we want in our life. We think that “Oh! I’ll do it later on! There is nothing to worry about!” This is exactly where we are very wrong.

There is nothing wrong with doing things later on; it’s completely fine; but there is everything wrong when you keep thinking of doing those works later on and then don’t do your works at all. And then, you become tensed and think why you did not do it. This makes you feel much more anxious and tensed as your dues start getting bigger overtime.

School is basically like a training ground. A training ground for understanding how the world works. You are given a deadline, and you are supposed to do some activity within that time. Just the way the schools teach us to face or to prevent a deadline, the same thing we learn when we grow up, when our employer gives us tasks to do and gives us a deadline within which we have to do our work. This tells us that school is just a preparatory stage of what the actual work environment is about to function like.

So, but how’s school and the work environment has any to do with our elders telling us off things to us? Well, since we are in our developmental stage, it makes sense that we are directed correctly and therefore develop a mindset that fits perfectly with the demands of our future. Moreover, your elders tell things for you to do only to benefit you, they are not going to get anything from your success.

They also tell you things because they want you to realize how important and how hard it is for them to sustain a family of two, three, or four. They tell us things because they want us to know that in the future when we will be in their place, it is going to be no easier for us.

So never take your elders words as things that they want to show you to prove you subordinate to them. Instead, take their words as if you are being given a tip on how to live in this world. Remember, the scenarios are not going to be any easier in the future than they are in the present, we will have our own problems to face which will come in the way, but only the tough will be able to sustain. So be tough and strong.